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Meet Tomas
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After a tough childhood in the Ukraine, Tomas was suddenly moved to the UK as a teenager and had difficulties relating to his new stepfather and adapting in school. Depression led to a suicide attempt and has affected his studies...more >>


Students Against Depression
 

Why Me?

Bad Person

Not knowing why

Not really knowing why you are feeling low is a frustrating, demoralising (and common) aspect of depression. It is easy to find yourself believing unhelpful, superstitious explanations, which in turn strengthen the hold of depression.

No good reason?

There is not usually a straightforward, single cause for why depression has affected any one person. Quite often it feels as if there is no good reason for it. But this does not mean that it has struck randomly.

Complex, interwoven factors

Vulnerability to depression is usually the outcome of complex, uniquely interwoven factors specific to each person. The factors can be roughly sorted into three categories:

These factors combine to form a background of different levels of vulnerability to depression for each person.

Triggers

Sometimes, a specific stressful experience, such as a bereavement or new challenge, then strains a person's coping resources so much that depression has a way in. In other cases, there is no obvious trigger and depression sneaks in quietly and reinforces itself without the person realising.

What's your depression story?

You can read about the real experiences of other students on this site. But what’s your story? Read more about each factor to help you think about what might have given depression a way in to your life.

Remember

What initially gave depression a foothold in your life may not be relevant to your life now. This is because once depression gets a foot in the door it works to reinforce a self-perpetuating depression habit spiral.

It's not your fault!

You don’t have to know why depression started in order to tackle it. But having a reasonable explanation helps to resist unhelpful, depression-inducing explanations. It can also help in deciding what strategies might be most effective for tackling depression and moving forward.

Easier with help

Working out your own depression story in detail is often easier with the help of a trained professional, like a counsellor. This case example using Anna's story shows the framework a counsellor might use to help someone work out their story and start to tackle depression.

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Links

More about other students’ life stories: real student stories
More about how depression works: the depression habit spiral, depressed thinking, stress, anxiety & anger
More about tackling depression
More about forms of help: talking to someone, what do counsellors offer?, what do doctors offer?